1. Love your Body
There is nothing sexier than a woman proud of her body even with all the wobbly bits and stretch marks. Men just don't see that stuff until you start pointing it out to them if they see a wild, confidant woman who is about to use and abuse them. And that makes them very hot.
2. Love his Body
Admit and show him that you find him irresistible. Squeeze his butt or other favoured part of his anatomy frequently but just not in front of his mates or his mum!
3. Give him his Freedom
Let him go out with his mates whenever he likes without pulling that face or sulking for a week. If you give him some slack, he will probably choose to spend more time with you anyway. And if he'd rather be out with them all the time, what are you doing with him anyway?
4. Dress to Impress
Although he doesn't want you to run of with his mates, he wants them all to fancy the ar$e of you and think that he is the luckiest bloke on the planet and that he must be really something in bed to keep a girl like you. Make sure you've got it and you know how to flaunt it.
5. Eat
Men hate women who pick at their salad whilst they are stuffing half a suckling pig into their mouths. If he sees you enjoying the sensations of food, he figures you're not going to be uptight and probably enjoy other sensual things that he likes too.
6. Discover Silence
He really doesn't care what Julia said to Ange which Ange repeated to Jane but Jane wasn't supposed to know because etc etc and neither does he care about those metallic gold sandals that you so need to go with your new dress. Sometimes it is best just to SHUT UP and show your closeness to him in other ways which don't require words...
7. Learn to Enjoy Porn
Men love porn and they go crazy for women who love porn. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that you are not attractive enough for him, he just gets off with visual stimulation and the porn just adds another dimension. Read or watch it together and see what happens. You might enjoy it.
8. Initiate Sex
Grab him! Tell him that you want him! Now! He needs to feel desired as much as you do. So get off your lazy ass, turn off the TV and make all his dreams come true. We don't care how tired you are, tonight is his lucky night!
9. Talk Dirty
Well, you don't even have to talk. Text him and tell him, in bite-sized chunks, what you are going to do to him later. Use words that neither you nor he could imagine coming out of your sweet, innocent mouth and keep it going all day long. Just make sure your texts are going to the right place!
10. Swallow
He will tell you that he doesn't care what you do with it but he absolutely loves it when you swallow (and you look like you're enjoying it!). I have it on good authority that a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down so a spoonful of honey in his daily diet will help! And if you still can't manage it, apparently it is good for the skin. Facial anyone?